I asked my friend this evening how many times he prayed nafl on behalf of his father ever since I told him. He said none except Jum’ah. Then he told me that he knows he’s wrong but he doesn’t feel like praying. He doesn’t trust Allah any more. He prayed for 2 years of his life and he didn’t get what he prayed for.
If Allah had to give everyone what they asked for just because they prayed for it, no one can imagine what the world would be like today. We’re not doing Allah a favour by praying to Him. We are only favouring ourselves. We’re saving ourselves from the Fire of Hell. Allah gives people only that what is right for them as He knows what we don’t. Any way how can you expect Allah to give you what you want when you don’t give Allah what He wants? It’s a different thing that Allah still gives as He is the Provider, most Merciful, and most Gracious. But we still don’t see how much He’s giving us every day, every second. If he wishes we would be poor on the streets this very minute or even rule a kingdom. It’s completely his wish. We need to thank Him for what he has provided us with. We need to take care that we do not make Him angry by questioning his giving. If you don’t trust Him, then why take what He gives? Everything is given by Him. If we become impatient in such short period, then what about all our Prophets (PBUT)? Not everybody was a king!
The Prophet Ayyub (PBUH) was Well Off:
The Prophet Ayyub (PBUH) was a prosperous man with firm faith in Allah. He possessed vast farms, enormous wealth, many cattle and valuable property but these things did not make him arrogant. His wealth provided him with a medium by means of which he sought Allah’s grace.
The Prophet Ayyub (PBUH) Displays Patience:
The Prophet Ayyub (PBUH) was a pattern of humility and faith in Allah. He was very patient. He suffered from a number of calamities but did not utter a single word of complaint. One day his big farm was attacked by the thieves. They killed many of his servants and carried away forcibly all his cattle. The Prophet Ayyub (peace be upon him) did not feel sorry at this loss and thanked Allah. After some time the roof of the house fell down and many members of his family were crushed. The Prophet Ayyub (peace be upon him) was much shocked but he held fast to his faith in Allah. He neither shed a tear nor heaved a sigh. He prostrated before the Almighty. He remarked that possessions and children were the gifts from Allah. If He had taken His things, it was useless to lament over their loss.
After a few years Prophet Ayyub (peace be upon him) suffered from skin disease. His parts of body were covered with loathsome sores. He had many ugly looking ulcers on his face and hands. The sores were full of worms. It is narrated that he picked up those worms which fell from his abscess and praised Allah for creating them. Above all, his false friends attributed his calamities to his sins. They ridiculed and looked down upon him. All the persons deserted him with the exception of his faithful wife, Rahima. She also grew tired of him in the long run and prayed for his death. She cursed her husband for retaining integrity in Allah. When Prophet Ayyub (peace be upon him) was in an extremely pathetic condition he prayed:
“Truly adversity has afflicted me and You are Most Merciful of all who show mercy.” (21: 83)
Allah accepted his prayer. The Holy Qur’an affirms:
“Then We heard his prayer and removed that adversity from which he suffered, and We gave him his household and the like thereof along with them, a mercy from Our store and remembrance for the worshippers.” (21: 84)
The Prophet Ayyub Recovers and Prospers:
Allah turned to him with mercy. He was commanded to strike the earth with his foot. He complied with the order and water from the spring gushed forth. He took a bath with the water and got cured from his evil disease. After this he was restored to prosperity. The Prophet Ayyub (peace be upon him) knelt and prayed expressing a deep sense of gratitude to Allah. He never forgot His favors, mercy and love.
The Prophet Ayyub (peace be upon him) was one of the celebrated Prophets. His example illustrates: that those who remain patient under the stress • of all circumstances, art never deprived of high rewards. The Holy Qur’an affirms:
“And surely we try you with something of fear and hunger, and loss of wealth and crops, but give glad-tidings to the steadfast, who when a misfortune befalls them, say lo! we are Allah’s (possession of Allah) and to Him shall we surely return. • Such are they on whom are blessings from their Lord, and mercy. Such are the rightly-guided.” (2: 155-157)